Posted on July 24, 2008 in Latest News
Women face problems in their marriages because they turn out to be nag. It is understandable that men often make them a nag, but nevertheless, a nagging women is not well received by the husband. He avoids her, seeks company of other women, and if situation gets worse, goes in for a divorce. Obviously, no woman would like her marriage falling apart. She has to find ways and means to please her husband, cajole him and make him feel comfortable. In other words, she cannot afford to be a nag. How can she be so?
How to Avoid being a Nag?
- Try to feel secure in a relationship. Any misunderstandings can be sorted out, spend quality time with your husband. Make him feel you care for him. He will reciprocate similar feelings
- Do not be over suspicious. Assuming things can just mar a relationship
- Give more freedom to your husband. Respect his time and allow him to be on his own for a while. Let him spend the time the way he wants
- Control your outbursts. You need not get angry over issues. You discuss and sort them out in a more amicable manner
- Build up trust. Both the partners should repose trust in each other
- Share the responsibility of bringing up the children. This would reduce the pressure on you
- Try to mend your habits to suit the likes and dislikes of your husband
- Convey your criticisms in a gentle way
- Do not seek attention through nagging
- Try to understand the cause of your nagging
- Do not expect all your problems to be solved
- Try to focus on your own problems and work on them
- Do not force your decisions on your husband
- Praise your husband for anything nice he may have done for you
- Relax and indulge yourself so that your moods improve
Stop being a nag. Save your marriage. Be understanding and try to appreciate your husband’s point of view also. Remember the days of courtship and try to live those days again.
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