How to Decide Whether it is Love or Friendship

Posted on November 28, 2007 in Latest News

Dating can leave you in great dilemmas like having to decide what is it that you feel for the other person and at the same having to read the positive and negative signs of the partner you are considering to romance in the near future.

Though there are exceptions to every relationship experts claim that teenage love stories usually don’t work out owing to a physical inclination or mere attraction from both sides. This however can be true of any relationship which is sustaining on the grounds of convenience.

Here are a few ways that can help you reach the conclusion that love will work between you and your man:

When he reciprocates to your feelings.
When he makes you feel good about yourself and about having you in his life.
When you can trust him enough about everything.
When you feel happy and secure in his company.
When you have healthy arguments but learn to realize the importance of each other and reach a consensus fast.
When he never makes you draw the lines of your loyalty towards him and your friends, family members, etc.
When you or he do not feel the need to test each other’s loyalty, commitment or feelings.
When both of you are absolutely comfortable in each other’s company.

Here are a few ways that can help you conclude that it is friendship that can survive between you and your man:

When he is quite uncomfortable about your presence till things are much clearer.
When he ignores your emotional and personal issues and wants to generally have a good time with you.
When he is in a constant haste to speak about what you might dislike or what he likes even though you may not approve of it.
Be smart and try reading his vibes and behavior more than his words because men generally tend to overshadow what they actually feel.

Judge yourself before anybody else. Question your choices and thoughts and then approach your man about his interests in order to find out what works out best between you two, whether love or friendship.

How to Decide Whether it is Love or Friendship

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