Posted on November 19, 2007 in Latest News
A lady should never forget that a man’s proposal should be dealt with utmost sensitivity and caution. She should not forget that she may hold similar feelings about someone else and may have to suffer the trauma of being rejected. Such situations therefore require the clarity of thoughts and choices.
Follow these tips to reject a love proposal:
- Appreciate his confidence by thanking him for giving you such a position in his heart.
- If the proposal comes your way through a letter, then never refuse or reject it but always learn to reply to it, whether it is a rejection or acceptance.
- Never take his feeling for granted and give him false hopes. In short, do not flirt with him.
- No man likes to be rejected owing to the male ego he possesses and don’t forget that he is shedding his pride by putting himself before you. So respect his feelings and take it seriously.
- Your rejection can hurt his self esteem and can humiliate him so tell him that he sure deserves someone better and more worthy of his love.
- If you are already speculating another proposal and have committed to someone else then let the new person know that you have someone else in your life. There is really no use in cheating your own feelings and others feelings too.
- If the person concerned is not being able to understand your point and is coming down harsh on you, then let another friend or relative explain that it is not possible for you to be with him.
- Never highlight his negativities for rejecting him. Instead boost his confidence and let him know that his courage goes all appreciated by you.
- Extend your hand of friendship and let him know that friendship is an eternal relationship and that the one shared by you and him will definitely last forever.
Remember that it takes a lot for a man to propose and it is a big deal when you are the chosen one. So instead of giving yourself the credit for it show some empathy and respect for the love that he wants to shower on you but the due he cannot get from you. Be calm, patient and understanding and most importantly be true about your feelings and everything will gradually fall in place.
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December 4th, 2007 at 7:19 am
Good write up and valuable suggestion to the rejectors. I am a male comes here to see how easy to reject. now it helps.