Posted on November 16, 2007 in Latest News
Dating is really tough if you are shy. One is shy when one fears about the rejection. However, you can transform yourself from a shy person into a confident person. When you are confident you can surely expect a positive response from your date.
Stand straight – You should try standing straight; it shows your confidence. Practice standing straight in front of a mirror.
Do not cross your arms – If you cross your arms it indicates that you are defensive and shy. Learn to avoid this mannerism.
Make eye contact –Your eyes speak what you are. When you meet your date you have to look straight into his eyes and maintain an eye-to-eye connection. Your eyes should also smile when you smile. This needs a lot of practice from your side.
Make the first move – Don’t wait for the other person to make the first move. Sit close to your date and start conversation. Starting the conversation may be difficult at first. But, if you start practicing it with everyone you meet in daily life, it will be not be a difficult task.
Tips to start the talk – The best tip to make the other person open for talking is by showing curiosity towards the other person. You need to ask open-ended questions, the questions that do not end on a yes-or-no answers. Also, start conversing about mutual interests to keep the conversation move on.
Compliment – If you are not confident enough to start a conversation then compliment is the best way to start. Make a compliment that is true from your heart. A compliment can be about anything – his laugh, dress sense, or anything that interests.
Watch his reactions – To make the conversation more interesting you need to watch his reactions and respond accordingly. Don’t keep talking; also keep listening.
Enjoy your dating! Happy dating!